What We Go By As A Collective When We Need A Singletsona , in case you interact with us or talk about us in a setting where we're not out as plural . Please do not out us to anyone without explicit permission.

• name Abby
• they/them pronouns
• queer (of nonbinary/pansexual flavour) & polyamorous
• brainthings we're all affected by:
  • autistic

Please don't use these for us in plural-safe spaces or in private. These details are for contexts where we have to pass as a singlet.

EXTERNAL ORGANISATION:

• we used to have a fronting schedule, but that's on hold for now. our frequent fronter team cycles on a weekly-ish basis, with others occasionally popping in and out.

FRONTING:

• We differentiate between soft switches (passing control back and forth between people who are already fronting; usually at least two people at any given time) and hard switches (someone coming into or leaving front fully)
  • We can soft switch on command, but fronters mostly can't control who gets in and out of front.
  • that said we can usually "call" people to wake up in front if we prepare for it when we go to sleep (which generally gives them a good grip on front for most of the...