• crossed arms
  • ignore emails
  • interrupt others
  • not keeping eye contact
  • not truly listening
  • overshare
  • sighing
  • slouch
  • stuck to your phone
  • swearing
  • talk too much about yourself
  • tap foot or finger
aug 18 2025 ∞
aug 18 2025 +
  • being and time (martin heidigger)
  • infinite jest (d.f. Wallace)
  • the brothers karamozov (fydor dostoversky)
  • the magic mountain (thomas mann)
  • the recognitions (william giddis)
  • thus spoke zarathusra (friedrich nietzche)
  • to the lighthouse(virginia woolf)
aug 15 2025 ∞
aug 15 2025 +
  • art of recording
  • being unreachable
  • develop photos
  • dial up internet
  • handwritten letters
  • live tv thrill
  • mail in cards
  • mixtapes
  • patience
  • road maps
aug 12 2025 ∞
aug 12 2025 +
  • balboa with h - even though he called it a cult
  • best dance this weekend was with g - better than sex
  • blues dances with robin
  • finally danced with g (twice -- guess I passed the vibe check)
  • h's quote: whenever you want to dance, the answer is yes
  • hosting Kelly and Nate (they were great guests)
  • last dance with h
  • led a few dances. still need lots of help with that
  • met H's new girl -- grabbed some great lines for a book
  • random solo sessions (esp. with hannah)
  • shag contest drama
  • sunday afternoon ethiopian (although i disliked the place)
apr 29 2025 ∞
may 1 2025 +
  • chasing anyone
  • dim their light for anyone
  • emotional labor
  • explain our hair choices
  • over explain themselves
  • prioritize capitalism over mental health
  • settle for struggle love
  • suffer in silence
  • teach non black people about systemic racism
  • waste their energy on drama
apr 22 2025 ∞
apr 22 2025 +
  • babies in harnesses
  • graduates in cap and gown
  • jazz albums
  • late spring dc weather (the best, only to early autumn)
  • leadership summit (last time i'll see the class)
  • new book genre -- jazz novels
  • rainy walks
aug 19 2025 ∞
aug 19 2025 +
  • don't flaunt their wealth
  • give back
  • invest, not earn
  • long term planners
  • prioritize education
  • value experiences over possessions
  • value time over money
aug 16 2025 ∞
aug 16 2025 +
  • dictionary of the khazars (miload david)
  • erasure (percival everette)
  • if on a winter's night a traveler (italo calvino)
  • life: a user's manual (george perec)
  • multiple choice (alejandro zambra)
  • the 5th head of cerebus (gune wolfe)
  • the lesbian novel(renee gladhan)
  • the story of my teeth (valeria luselli)
  • the vegetarian (han kang)
  • why did i ever (mary robinson)
aug 13 2025 ∞
aug 13 2025 +
  • affairs
  • assualt
  • bands
  • blackface
  • clothing
  • community
  • competition
  • dance crushes
  • exchanges
  • exclusion
  • fatphobia
  • film
  • flights
  • harrassment
mar 25 2025 ∞
mar 25 2025 +
  • annual vacation
  • backyards
  • college education
  • country club
  • modern kitchens
  • retirement plans
  • stable job with benefits
  • station wagon
  • stock options
  • suburban house
  • two car garage
aug 20 2025 ∞
aug 20 2025 +
  • comfort zones
  • far based decisions
  • jobs that don't value them
  • judgemental people
  • negative energy
  • old grudges
  • one sided relationships
  • regrets
  • the desire to win
  • toxic relationships
  • unnecessary drama
  • wasted time
aug 17 2025 ∞
aug 17 2025 +
  • augustine's bader to the rich cream
  • cetaphil gentle clear mattifying acne moisturizer
  • curve moisturizing cream
  • la rock posay toleraine double repair matte face moisturizer
  • neutrogena hydro boost hyaolic acid cream
  • the outset nourishing squaleance daily moisturizer
  • vanicream daily facial moisturizer
aug 14 2025 ∞
aug 14 2025 +
  • appreciation for authenticity
  • connection and emotional depth
  • distinct sense of nostalgia
  • find joy in simplicity
  • love of storytelling
  • open-mindedness
  • sense of timelessness
  • unwavering individuality
aug 11 2025 ∞
aug 11 2025 +
  • annual physical
  • apply for PMP
  • apply to nonprofit jobs
  • arrange meeting with jordan (coaching call)
  • buy bookshelf
  • cancel gym membership for personal training
  • cancel subscriptions
  • create a new budget
  • find non-profit info for interviews
aug 1 2025 ∞
aug 1 2025 +
  • ambitious
  • beautiful figure
  • creativity
  • good writer
  • independent
  • inventive
  • self-sufficiency
  • sexuality
  • success
  • youthful
apr 15 2025 ∞
apr 15 2025 +
  • history
  • homophobia
  • inclusion
  • instruction
  • judges
  • last dance
  • performance
  • preparation
  • racism
  • rent parties
  • shoes
  • types of jazz dance
  • weddings
mar 25 2025 ∞
mar 25 2025 +