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    replace this text with your list begin each item with an asterisk   jan 31 2021 ∞jan 31 2021 +
              
         
 
  
            Grandma 
    all the time she spent alone her mom and dad, hard working Sherwood hiding in the closet her Jewish project at school, meeting the rabbi meeting grandpa planning her wedding  Grandpa 
    the horse he owned family history - the farm exodus, the uncle who got everyone jobs at the depot watching men leave/come back from WWII   dec 31 2020 ∞dec 31 2020 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    Betrayal at House on the Hill Jaipuri Star Realms Oceans Spirit Island Race for the Galaxy Palace of Mad King Ludwig Aeon's End Wingspan 7 Wonders Photosynthesis   dec 16 2020 ∞dec 16 2020 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    I provide wfh/wfa employment to a team (why?) Because this changed my life and I know it can do the same for others (why?) Because I get to wake up every day and think "what do I want to do?" (why) Because feeling in control/feeling like a designer of my own life is something I want every day, not just on the weekends. I work on making businesses successful (why?) Because I love rags to riches stories (why?) Because it goes against the idea that the winners inherit the future (why?) Because I believe everyone deserves a chance to live the life they want. I have time for creative expression (why?) Because I'm most fully alive when I'm creating something (why?) Because it takes my full attention and I can look at it or show it later. (why?) Creative expression marks the passage of time.   nov 23 2020 ∞dec 14 2020 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    The Art of Gathering Pale Blue Dot yes The Odyssey yes Come As You Are Bread Givers yes Educated Priestdaddy Children of Blood and Bone The Hate U Give Sir Gawain and the Green Knight Gilgamesh yes N.K. Jemison's Series (x3) yes   feb 10 2019 ∞nov 23 2020 +
              
         
 
  
            Audience engagement through: 
    Design principles Graphic design Content strategy Email marketing Social media Social advertising SEO PPC advertising Crowdfunding  Transformational events: 
    Instructional design Non-violent communication Gamification  Home organization: Writing and storytelling:  feb 3 2019 ∞feb 3 2019 +
              
         
 
  
            What would you do? 
    Study philosophy , ecology, sustainable systems Start an IMPACT Personal Safety chapter Sell homemade multi-use travel wear on Etsy Become a digital nomad , working remotely from anywhere in the world Plant a garden  and preserve the harvest   jun 5 2017 ∞feb 22 2018 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    Dad  - trip to Sweden or Adak Mom  - Village Harmony summer camp Francie  - Book in Spanish, trip to Mexico Cece  - dance conference, lessons, or retreat Miriam  - kayak Cora  - Leadership training retreat Grandma  - arrangement of All Creatures of Our God and King, sheet music dedicated to her + recording Grandpa  - Family history   oct 17 2017 ∞feb 4 2018 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    Gilbane Conference Inbound World Domination Summit Ecuador MMM Retreat   nov 29 2016 ∞feb 4 2018 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    Diane Ackerman Martin Luther King Jr. Leo Tolstoy Barbara Kingsolver Wendell Berry James Baldwin   feb 23 2015 ∞feb 4 2018 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    find friends who play musical instruments cook a big pot of something or other; bake fresh bread buy 6 copies of Rise Up Singing living room seating for 15 people patio seating; outdoor fire projector  and surround sound to make my living room a movie theater board games  (esp. funky new ones from Kickstarter) blanket fort  'nuf said   jan 31 2015 ∞feb 22 2018 +
              
         
 
  
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    Bitterroot Valley, Montana Cabin in Big Lake, Wisconsin Kazbegi, Republic of Georgia Lake Katherine, Pecos Wilderness, New Mexico Collegeville, Minnesota Gjain & Gülfoss, Iceland Chaco Canyon, New Mexico Foxtail Farm, Wisconsin SHT, Minnesota   mar 5 2015 ∞sep 3 2020 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    sounds like rain house of mercy this heart of mine kingdom come Valerie through the dark time after time Annabell Lee   apr 5 2015 ∞feb 4 2018 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    swing low sweet chariot edelweiss amazing grace Joshua fit the battle of Jericho summertime the water is wide Shenandoah now I walk in beauty oh sinner man way faring stranger death came a knockin'   apr 27 2015 ∞feb 4 2018 +
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    PET yes A River Sutra partial Sudden Traveler didn't like The Promised Land partial Clap When You Land yes Becoming The Wind in the Willows (reread) The Emperor of All Maladies: A Biography of Cancer Thinking, Fast and Slow Cosmos I Am Malala (finish) Michael Pollan - Caffeine, Botany of Desire The Absolutely True Diary of a Part Time Indian Anna Karenina Guns, Germs, and Steel Complete Works of Shakespeare (monthly seminar with Zach) Myths to Live By   dec 31 2020 ∞jan 3 2022 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    BIG, lightweight blankets for building forts clothespins scissors, paper bags, cardboard, and tape Klutz books rocking horse crutches dress up clothes (silks, crowns, prairie dresses, sunbonnets, leather vests, moccasins) canopy hideout loft baby food jars for keeping bugs as pets piano art easel/chalkboard toy animal play fort Eric Carl, Jan Brett, books about real people, Animaze!   dec 19 2011 ∞nov 23 2020 +
              
         
 
  
            What if: 
    I was my own boss and never had to live through a performance review again. Employed or co-created with talented individuals who knew their own value. Trusted myself to follow through, centered on daily rituals that lead to health, centeredness, and balance. Earned a surplus of money that accelerates my savings to the point where I am debt free, have free housing, and financial independence. I had a flexible schedule and could spend part of the year traveling in other cities. Made writing part of my every day, got articles published, and answer "YES" when someone asks me if I love to write. Incorporated the SJC model into agency work: "Great ideas happen through equal participation."   mar 10 2019 ∞mar 10 2019 +
              
         
 
  
            Keys to a Long Life 
    Keep learning, take free classes, pursue an advanced degree Practice hospitality and teach others what you know Develop traditions with patience and care, lots of forgiveness, and a sense of humor Make memorials to moments that are truly unforgettable Always treat people in customer service like they are the King or the Queen Lose a little in every deal Save emotions for the things that really matter; practice a degree of detachment especially in a business setting or in leadership  Seasonal Living, Frugality 
    1-2 months to travel and live somewhere else every other year   aug 16 2017 ∞feb 22 2018 +
              
         
 
  
            Sickness starts with a scratchy throat. It will feel like you can push through and do things. STOP. 
    Cancel or postpone all your appointments for the next week. Get your pharmacy in order: neti pot, nighttime cough medicine, ginger lemon honey garlic tea, Advil, chicken soup, Flonase, prescription Sudafed, VapoRub for steam treatments. Stay indoors. Rest, relax, do healing meditations. Sleep profusely.  Prevent sickness during the Fall and allergy season: 
    Live "car-free." You only have time for one event each day. You can't hop from appointment to meeting to party to a concert. Say no to some or most events. Curate cal...   may 18 2018 ∞nov 23 2020 +
              
         
 
  
            TRAVEL 
    Live/work abroad for 1-2 months each year
      
        2019 - Argentina (Patagonia) 2020 - Colombia (Havana) 2021 - Bali (Singapore) 2022 - Egypt 2023 - New Zealand Longer 3-month trips in five clusters:
      
        South America Southeast Asia Georgia/Kyrgystan Tanzania the Mediterranean  HOME/NESTING 
    Rent a home with people my age Build a community around:   feb 22 2018 ∞may 13 2018 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    travel coming home light within light mountains singing harmonies calico cats in the sun the enduring tradition of books farmers markets; a well-balanced meal minimalism; tiny homes & RV homes correspondence   dec 19 2011 ∞feb 19 2018 +
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    natural light is #1 roof for solar panels house hacking potential backyard for chickens, rabbits front yard for raised beds space for a farm house long table   jan 31 2021 ∞jan 31 2021 +
              
         
 
  
            Tech 
    analog activities tech-free mornings set intention every day use Pomodoro timer  Trash 
    buy only as much food as I will eat avoid acquiring items I don't want to store start limiting quantities of trash   dec 31 2020 ∞dec 31 2020 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    coffee receipts paying bills/rent taxes stack of unread books being a social media expert   dec 3 2012 ∞nov 23 2020 +
              
         
 
  
            Lifestyle: 
    Flower subscription - $1350 for biweekly over 9 months Coworking membership - $2200 annually Monthly appts with therapist  Home: 
    Chef's kitchen Home lighting (not string lights) A sectional couch My Green Mattress Pacific Rim bedroom furniture   apr 4 2019 ∞nov 23 2020 +
              
         
 
  
            Monthly donations to Planned Parenthood, Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, Santa Fe Dreamers Project Nightstands to complete the feng shui of my bedroom Business tools: Google Pixel 3 or a camera phone that takes great photos and video, tripod. Adobe creative suite subscription. Monitor, keyboard, mouse, standing desk setup. Crafts: Waldorf doll supplies, tiny book supplies  may 24 2018 ∞mar 10 2019 +
              
         
 
  
            "If you want to make God laugh, tell her your plans." 20s 
    BALA undergrad First boyfriend @23, first breakup @24 4-year job Walk the Camino de Santiago and move home @27  28 
    freelance, business coaching, find community, arrive home  29-31 (3 Year Plan) 
    Develop career in digital marketing and UX Establish possibility of remote work abroad every winter Create personal consulting brand Rent a home w/ people my age Pay off student debt (~$20,000)   feb 22 2018 ∞may 6 2018 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    There is no good or evil, only freedom . I am not an atheist or a believer. I'm a skeptic . Life is about creating moments  and traditions  with the people we love. I will cultivate a life with a rhythm of journey  and homecoming . They say FI is about "buying freedom." For me, it's about "making freedom."  It's the journey and not the destination. It's making wealth in the here and now  which carries over and compounds into future wealth.
      
        If I become chronically ill, I will have the savings, community, and ingenuity to be fully alive in my illness. If I become the caregiver for a dependent, I will have the space to give my whole attention to that person for as long as they need me. If I start a business or become responsible for the wealth of others, I will have a solid foundation in place so that I can...   feb 4 2018 ∞feb 4 2018 +
              
         
 
  
            True wealth occurs when the way we spend our money is not simply compensating for how we earn it. - Mark Manson 
    Happiness doesn’t arise from the absence of responsibility. It emerges from spending time on activities that create a state of consciousness called flow  also known as “being in the zone.” - Paula Pant  I have been very fortunate in worldly matters; many men have worked much harder, and not succeeded half so well; but I never could have done what I have done, without the habits of punctuality, order, and diligence, without the determination to concentrate myself on one object at a time, no matter how quickly its successor should come upon its heels, which I then formed. -Charles Dickens (as David Copperfield) 
    "If there is a Creator," Jim said, "I imagine that one day He is going to say, 'Ji...   mar 17 2017 ∞mar 26 2018 +
              
         
 
  
          
  
    3k checking account cushion 401k max each year (Eventual) 300k investments (Eventual) Home mortgage with sublet (Eventual) Rental property Lifestyle flexibility Work flexibility (diverse skills)  Inspiration: http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2011/10/1...  jan 12 2017 ∞feb 4 2018 +
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